Do those of us who think we know everything, know that you really annoy those of us who do?
Okay, This is confession time, just because I have learned that I am not always right doesn't mean that I'm not always right, it just means that sometimes I could be wrong and I can't think
of one of those occasions, just joking......
The real confession is, I do like to be right, but being right now doesn't matter to me like it did when we were first married or even for the first twenty years.
Dr.Phil, who we affectionately named Uncle Phil, posed a question in his conflict resolution to the couples he counsels, "Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?".
Its a funny thing to think that something could matter so much to us that we put it above happiness and our relationships, nobody wants to be married to someone who is always right or who thinks they are.
I have learned that somethings don't really matter so much and this is one of them.
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